sansan

Once bitten, twice shy…

When we’ve had really unpleasant experiences in life, especially when such experiences caused emotional pain, in a more or less dramatic way, and in the not-so distant-past.. And if at the same time, due to certain reasons, we have to be constantly reminded of the past, fear emerged..

It caused us be extra careful about moving forward… in the way it might have taken away the spontaneous good feel! We might be deterred inevitably from enjoyment. Such may be unnecessary worry.. However, having gone thru such predicament, we may be able to better understand and accept it when things don’t always go the way we hope it to be..

Fear of uncertainties.. What if similar unhappy things happen again? What if hurt comes about again? Do i wana take the chance and hope for a different outcome this time round? Or should i just pass.. What urges one more?

Dun let the past affect the possible wonderful future.. the past might have happened for the reason tat one can appreciate the present more, no? Even if this sounds lame, isn’t it a better option to think it this way? It’s ok to take some time to make emotional adjustments within oneself, in participation for a better future, but while u’re still considering such factors, commitment may have already been made.. not by u.

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